The Homeschool Journey

I was a horrible student. 

Not in the sense that I acted out, didn't study or talked too much. I was a horrible student because I didn't learn in the manner that public school educates. I excelled in classes that made me use my hands and did terrible in the normal classes, with the exception of "Language Arts", I have a knack for that. I thought I would never excel at anything. Turns out, I just learn differently. 

I watched my sister, 7 years younger than myself, experience an even lesser education than I had. They watched sponge-bob regularly, who knew that show was even remotely educational. 

When I became a mother I started the search for education options for my teeny tiny human, no seriously, I was pregnant when I began the hunt. As my oldest grew closer and closer to school age and my financial situation becoming worse and worse, I began to settle with the idea that she would go into the public education system. Oh the disappointment I felt; my life was a mess therefore giving my child the best was not an option, so much disappointment. One day, I sat in my awful job loathing every passing second and I had a customer who offered me a job as his office manager working from my home. I would be lying if I told you I hesitated, I jumped all over that chance to be home! I began researching like a crazy person for home schooling options, laws, material...etc. I began buying resources and slowly implementing educational pieces to our normal day. I've tried the structured method, where everything happens at a specific time. Let me be frank, I have a job that requires me to be on the phone, with as little distraction or noise as possible, that time specific schedule went out the door within two weeks, it was completely impractical and even more impossible to fully implement into our routine because I am constantly leaving the room.

I do take a Montessori approach to education and we learn everything through play. There is, really, not a moment of the day that I am not educating my children on something. With that being said I take a much more lackadaisical approach to education than I thought I would. (I promise to have another post with our routine) There have been many tears shed throughout this journey, it has been hard on me, some times I feel like a failure, I feel like it is way too hard, I have no idea what I am doing. Yet, every day I wake up and educate my children on something. My youngest is really into the Egyptian Pyramids and the ocean. My middle child is into artistic things and astronomy. My oldest child is into all things earth, science completely fascinates her. My children are 4, 3 and 3 years old (we're in birthday season, so everyone is slightly overlapping) "What about the 3 R's?" you may be wondering. Well, we work on those things daily, my kids love learning the sounds of letters, they hate writing, they love counting as high as they can (we practice counting by playing hide and seek), they hate counting objects. I don't have a fancy degree, I'm not always available, but my children are learning (about things I never imagined a tot to learn about) and thriving and enjoying life. Homeschooling to me is about obtaining the best education possible while spending time as a family, it's not about tests and homework. It's open, honest communication, it's about building excellent character and being awesome every day at everything we try and trying everything!

Thanks for reading, see ya next time.